Now you might think the title is metaphorical but no. I mean literally…but also get ready for some real stuff and life lessons! Wooh!
Something you all know about me at this point: I’m a huge lover of Swing Dance. (Being deprived of it since I’ve moved is so hard)
Something you may or may not know about me is this: I have chronic pain in my legs (due to uneven arches in my feet.) This chronic pain affects me daily. Some days are worse than others but usually after a full day of running around doing errands and working I am out for the count and it hurts to walk or move.
Put chronic pain and Swing together and you get an interesting way of making said chronic pain worse. Yet I do it and keep doing it anyways.
Because I love it too much to stop. Now that might sound like a silly excuse but its the truth.
Why Swing Dance?
Swing Dance is something I did weekly before moving (I still dance around my apartment lots too. Not the same but hey I’m still groovin’ ) Not only was it fun but it really improved my mood but, for the first time in a long time, I REALLY looked forward to a new week ahead of me cause I always kicked off the week with dance.
Fun fact: Dance or Movement Therapy has been used for many centuries to improve the mental and physical well- being of a person. Since dancing is an art, it increases self-expression and helps people connect with themselves and others. Dancing is a form of art that offers a way to explore psychological roots to overcome certain illnesses such as depression. Research have shown that dancing provide benefits that can help minimize depression’s effects.
As well as it being fun there are actually a lot of health benefits of it. Swing Dancing is a fun way to work out without it really feeling like a workout in the moment. Dancing also makes you happier. Not just in the moment but also in the long run.
I’ve taken many kinds of dance over the last 4-5 years and it really does make you happier! and if I’m having a bad day I put on one of my favorite songs at top volume and just sing and dance away like no one is watching. (usually no one is haha)
Something else that Swing Dance has done for me personally is make me a little more social and confident. – I’m an introverted little human who much prefers sitting in a corner and waiting till someone approaches me and starts talking to me as opposed to my approaching them… but doing Swing Dance totally turned that around for me?
Simple- Swing Dance is a very fun, outgoing, and social type of dance where, whether you are a lead or a follow, guy or girl, if you wanna dance you get your butt off that chair and go up to someone and ask them to dance.
For the first while when I first started Swing Dancing I was like ‘nuh- uh no way. Nope. I’m gonna sit here and wait for someone to ask me to dance.‘ but eventually I started going up to people and asking them to dance!
Now this might sound like a funny thing to discuss but here is the thing. If you are a introverted little human (as mentioned before) you would know that this is a scary thing! But in terms of Swing Dancing I now have NO problem (or almost no problem) walking up to someone and asking them to dance.
Where did the chronic pain come from? What can you do to relieve your pain?
As I stated above, my chronic pain affects my every day life as it is a reoccurring pain in my legs. It caused by uneven arches in my feet and when I went to go get it figured out I found out my one leg is carrying about 70% (cant remember exactly) of my body weight when I stand as opposed to having it distributed evenly. (So you can see there the pain comes from)
Essentially my pain relief comes with doing some stretches for my legs and feet as well as just not walking around and putting my feet up when I can. Other than that there isn’t much to be done.
Why do you dance if it hurts?
I keep doing dance because its honestly something I love and am passionate about. Swing Dance has helped me become more confident in myself and has also made me happier – as well as that I’ve gotten to know some amazing people who I now can call my friends.
“Whats your point in telling me this, Adriana?” – well. Let me tie this all together here.
Basically my point is no matter what, do what you want to do or have dreamed of doing.
Don’t let anything hold you back whether it be mental or physical.
If there is something you truly love and are passionate about you will find a way to do it. For me that love and passion is swing dance.
For you it might be dance as well.
No matter what it is, you can do it. If you just have faith in yourself and find the determination to reach for your dreams.
Achieve your goals.
If you set your mind to it you can do anything no matter what ‘limitations’ people tell you you have.
Adrianna, this is a beautiful post. You are so inspiring. Keep dancing, no matter what comes your way!
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I’m so glad you like it and that I can be an inspiration to someone 🙂 ❤ ❤ and don't worry I will 🙂
Aw this is a cool post, Adriana! I used to take Swing Dancing in middle school and early high school.
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Why thanks! and that’s so awesome! 🙂 Isn’t Swing Fun?
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This is a cool article. I’m one of those introverted little humans too, an INFJ to be exact, and I’ve recently found a love for swing dancing! I’ve had self doubts on whether I’ll ever get good at swing dancing because it feels like I have two left feet and no sense of rhythm. Some days I feel like I semi-know what I’m doing and other days it feels like I’ll always be that tube man flailing in the wind. But I love how you said don’t let anything hold you back and I do believe that I’m the one who is holding myself back with my insecurities and self-doubt. It really helped me when you said that you’ll find a way to do something if you’re truly passionate about it. I really do love swing dancing and have noticed it is good for me too, it helps me to get out all that nervous energy I’ve accumulated during the week, and the swing community is so open and friendly and I love that. So thank you for this great article. I will keep trying my best and keep on learning this great dance!
I’m so happy this helped you! ❤ and I agree with what you said being that it really does help and the Swing Community is just the sweetest group of people! I miss my group from back home now that I have moved away haha. Glad to hear you will keep at it ❤