Over the past few weeks I’ve come to realise that things so far haven’t gone how I planned. But I guess things never really do…
I’m a planner. I plan things and I make lists… I guess you could say i’m a ‘lister’ (only some of you are going to get this and that’s okay)
So when things didn’t/don’t or aren’t going as I hoped and planned I often feel lost and/or frustrated.
Why do I do this? Why do I make lists all the time if it frustrates me half the time?
Because it helps me feel like I have MORE control over my life than I actually do.
As much as I wish that my lists and planning just went how I wanted I know that’s not how life works. I can pout and be miserable about it but it doesn’t change that fact. So I’ve actually started moving away from planning every little thing in my life and just ‘going with the flow.’ Things like being with my friends and my boyfriend has made me realise the importance of just letting things happen and the relief and relaxation that comes with it.
Learning to just LIVE in the MOMENT.
I’ve learned this all when it comes to my everyday life as well. (Not just more important or significant days or events in my life) ESPECIALLY during my move and the transition to moving and being in a new place. Only now as I’m slowly starting to feel like myself again after feeling not very much like myself (in this transition of moving and a new job.) as, once again, things didn’t go as I planned.
I still haven’t really made any friends and being more introverted is also part of my problem. But this is causing problems cause I’m getting bored and stressed out in my own tiny apartment. Adjustment is a lot harder than I EVER would have thought. It feels I’m climbing a mountain I don’t want to be or stuck in some hole going in circles over and over and over again.
But despite this all I’ve learned to just trust in God (I’m gonna share the lyrics to a song that’s been helping me a lot at the end of this post) and that my moving here is all part of some plan and as much as I wish I could just make a list to sort it out, I know I can’t and I have to be patient.
Lean on God and just let life be…
When You don’t move the mountains
I’m needing You to move
When You don’t part the waters
I wish I could walk through
When You don’t give the answers
As I cry out to You
I will trust, I will trust
I will trust in You
Truth is You know what tomorrow brings
There’s not a day ahead You have not seen
So in all things be my life and breath
I want what You want Lord and nothing less
~Trust in You by Lauren Daigle
Haha lister. XD I totally understand what you’re saying about control. Lists are super helpful to help organize life, but I think the trick is finding when it’s good to throw the list away. Life is so unpredictable and sometimes we have to just ride with it.
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So glad someone else appreciates that HAHA and I agree. That’s what i’m learning to do. Sometimes you gotta just throw away the list.
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